我想爱你而不想抓住你；

欣赏你而不须批判你；

和你齐参与而不会伤害你；

邀请你而不必强求你；

离开你亦无须言歉咎；

批评你而并非责备你；

帮助你而没有半点看低你，

那么我俩的相会就是真诚的而且能彼此润泽。


－－萨提亚－－


Goals for me,

I want to love you without clutching;

Appreciate you without judging;

Join you without invading;

Invite you without demanding;

Leave you without guilt;

Criticize you without blaming;

And help you without insulting.

If I can have the same from you, then we can truly met and enrich each other.


－－ Virginia Satir －－